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Life Lesson #4 – Shame

It’s that feeling you get when you just don’t measure up.  That cold, dark sensation that washes over you when you fall down on a responsibility.  This is shame.     Shame affects all of us differently.  For some, it’s a minor inconvenience that arises at the worst of times.  For others, it’s a constant battle, each day a minefield of triggers and obstacles that cause feelings of unworthiness.   I want to.. Read More

What I Learnt in 2017

With the dawn of a new year, it’s always nice to reflect on what we have accomplished in the last 12 months.  What went wrong, what went right; what I learnt in 2017.   I can’t remember a year quite as challenging and humbling as the one so recently past.  I would be so bold as to say that it was the best and worst year of my life.   First, I Learnt.. Read More

Life Lesson # 3 – Relax!

  Relax, slow down, smell the roses, breathe, chill out.   We often find these challenging.  But why?   Why can’t we just sit on our own in silence and feel relaxed?     Time-wasting   As a teenager, I did everything I could to avoid work or deciding on my future.  I dropped out of high school to pursue video gaming and binge drinking.   Everything I was doing was in search.. Read More

A Little Kindness

Showing others kindness is, in my humble opinion, one of the most gratifying and fulfilling things you can do.  It generally costs little more than effort, and it can honest change lives.  We often take small gestures of kindness for granted.   Remembering Kindness   I grew up with disability in the household.  My mother had Multiple Sclerosis, and passed away just over 10 years ago.  When I was 10 or 11, she.. Read More

Mindfulness Retreat in Nature

Mindfulness

Why mindfulness in nature? Is practicing mindfulness is nature any different than meditating in the city? I believe being in nature makes it easier to connect with ourselves and be present with what is happening in the moment. I had the great pleasure to facilitate the first ever 1-day mindfulness retreat for Conscious Beginnings on Sunday, 27th of November 2016. “Rest you mind and connect with nature” was the theme of this rejuvenating.. Read More

Mindfulness Workshop at the National Conference of Australian Counselling Association

I had the privilege to present a 90 minute Mindfulness Workshop, which was well attended. The workshop looked at the theory and practice of mindfulness including the theory of the mind. It provided useful tools and techniques for the therapists to incorporate mindfulness in their practice and ended with a 15 minute guided meditation. The 2016 Australian Counselling Association, National Conference was held between 23rd-25th of September, at the Stamford Plaza Hotel in.. Read More

Reflections of 2015 – Conscious Beginnings

Wow, what a year it has been! I don’t know you, but for me 2015 passed with great speed and intensity. In this post, I will reflect on the past 12 months and share the main events for Conscious Beginnings. The Science of Happiness It all started with signing up for the Science of Happiness course offered by the UC Berkeley. It is an online course that looked at how we can improve.. Read More

Relationship between Social Connections and Happiness

We are social beings. No matter if you are an introvert or an extrovert; we all have the need to connect with others. We are born in families, live in communities and help each other to overcome obstacles. According to the Science of Happiness course by UC Berkeley, we are “ultrasocial” beings who not only care for our own offspring but also for others in need through empathy, generosity, and cooperation. In this.. Read More

Tips for a Happy Relationship!

Maintaining a healthy relationship can be difficult at times. I surely had enough ups and downs in my relationship with my wife to provide some firsthand suggestions but let’s take a look at some of the latest research in the field. What is the secret of a happy marriage or a relationship? In their famous study of “the Four Horseman of the Apocalypse”, Gottman and Levenson have documented that four specific behaviours in.. Read More

Does Money Bring Happiness?

In this article, we will go beyond the proven facts that exercise, good sleep patterns and achievements contribute to our happiness. We will look at the scientific research to understand effective ways of cultivating happiness and challenge the myth “money brings happiness”. What makes us happy? When we identify happiness as pleasure or having our needs met, we end up in a vicious circle. Many of us, especially in the Western societies, associate.. Read More